The Astrology Of Sex, Relationships and Break-Ups
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If you have any of the following characteristics in your natal chart, know that awareness can mean the difference between a happy marriage and divorce.
Uranus When Uranus is in your 7th House, or makes hard aspects to your relationship planets Sun, Moon, Venus, Mars or ruler of your 7th House, you have a strong drive for liberation and independence. Uranus acts like an enormous surge of electricity that switches on and off at unpredictable times. Restlessness and intolerance of restrictions is a hallmark.
Often, a disruptive or shocking event in childhood created the template for your adult responses. It can be difficult to reconcile this with the stability required for a successful marriage. Uranus will express itself via the planet it touches. In all cases, the response to the threat of loss, restriction or pain will involve an escape, courtesy of Uranus. Venus opposite Uranus suggests an early, abrupt separation from a loved one.
This can have an impact on our experiences during that period of time. Another thing to consider is the individual horoscopes as well as the synastry and composite charts between the two people being analyzed for potential divorce or break up.
Some charts have the propensity for difficulty in relationships, while others tend to rise above problems and work through them. Then, in looking at the synastry, you can often tell if a hard aspect may trigger one of the harder aspects between two planets in the charts. I once read that if a couple can make it through their individual Saturn to Venus transits or progressions, they can make it through anything.
I can vouch from personal experience, that my ex husband and I did not make it through the hard aspect transiting Saturn made to our respective Venus placements when we divorced. This would be the chart set for the date, time and place the wedding took place. This can be seen by: Recently, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner announced that they would be divorcing. Neptune is also in the 5th, which in of itself does not mean someone is going to have affairs, but, wherever we find Neptune in the chart is where we may either lie to others or ourselves.
It is also not surprising that they began to have issues a couple of years ago, and sought out counseling.
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His natal Moon in the 5th house, was transited by Saturn. Saturn rules his 8th house.
The 8th house ruler when activated can indicate psychotherapy or counseling of some sort. It was more than likely a very sad or depressing time for him as well, and I also have to wonder if some of his speculative activities lost him some money since Saturn rules the 8th and the Moon the 2nd, which are financial houses in the chart. He also was and still is receiving a transit from Pluto in Capricorn through his 7th house. Whenever Pluto moves through this house, it can signal a complete transformation, change or breakdown.
His marriage may have been at the breaking point at that time, which was late into — two years ago — and he may have been given an ultimatum to change his ways.
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Being that this is the house that rules ones marriage partner, it can also show that Jennifer may have been going through a transformation or huge life change herself at that time. At the same time transiting Pluto was entering his 7th house, it was also opposing his ascendant and natal Venus.
What you sow, you shall reap or what goes around comes around, or what you put into something is what you get out of it. For example a dissatisfied partner may be confrontative and say, "You're no longer thoughtful and romantic.
You use to buy me flowers and remember my birthday;" or "You use to care enough to listen and show interest in my feelings. It's also possible that you'll find out that it's too late and now must accept the consequences for past actions toward your partner. It's Judgment Day for Your Relationship Saturn's influence is a time of testing that will determine whether your relationship will deepen and become real or impermanent in your life.
During its transit through your 7th House, you're able to perceive your relationship clearly and realistically for what it is. For example, if you've been in a love relationship for some time, and it's what you want and need, you will decide to make a firm commitment to it. If you realize that after months or years, it's not going to work out despite all your efforts, you may decide the relationship must end.
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During this Saturn transit be sure you and your partner communicate openly and objectively about any issues that exist. If necessary, get a mediator or a counselor to help you clear the air so that you can have an open discussion. The tensions between you will only grow deeper, creating greater upset, if you don't resolve them now. Express your expectations of each other to avoid any future disappointments.
Use this transit to air your dirty laundry, and release all your "withholds," those ill feelings you haven't told your partner for the sake of peace and harmony. If you choose to be percent honest, you'll have the opportunity to come to a new understanding and re-structure your relationship in a way that works to everyone's satisfaction. If you want to know where your personal transits are--and to find out if you have any in the 7th House--that are affecting now, go to the Free Transit Calculator and enter your birth date.
You may find out that Saturn or other personal transits are bringing change to your relationships right now.