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The first thing you have to do is focus on the emotional side of things in that situation, in the sense that He mentioned that she's experiencing depression, and that's affecting the sex life, as well as the fact that they were having issues before the baby.
But right now, because the infidelity occurred, you have to rebuild the trust in the relationship.
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Because the reality is that if a woman is not connected with you in the relationship and she does not feel emotionally safe, she's going to struggle to give herself to you sexually. He has to now work on the deeper parts of that relationship and find out what was causing the depression and what was causing the disconnecting sex before the baby occurred.
Once we can kind of get to those real issues and correct them, now we can start rebuilding a better relationship and a better sex life. So my husband and I had our first baby about six months ago. It's a hard thing to talk about, but we haven't had sex in a while.
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I'm just self-conscious about my body from being overweight and the stretch marks. I also feel awkward sharing my body with my husband because I'm breastfeeding. I'm just really trying to figure out how to get past that, where I can feel confident in myself again and where I don't feel awkward sharing my body with him, and where I can feel sexy again and where he looks at me the same. If you could just give me advice on what to do, how to get past that.
First thing is to make sure that you talk to your husband and you express how you feel to him so that he understands that you withdrawing from sex is because of the conflicting feelings you're having within, and so he can now work with you on building that confidence back up, and as was mentioned earlier, celebrating your body.
And not just relying on your husband to celebrate it, but for you to celebrate it, for you to look in the mirror and remind yourself that you're beautiful, that you're desirable, that your husband does want you. You have to now kind of work your way back into being more intimate with your husband. That might be having some small steps as far as, you know, cuddling, kissing, the small things to kind of ease into it and build that confidence back up, but make sure you keep the communication open with your husband.
Because if he doesn't know what's going on, it can create other conflicts in the relationship. Do you have any advice for getting back into dating when you're a single parent? One thing is, definitely don't define yourself by, "Oh, I'm a single mother. They question that the man's going to want them or going to be as interested.
I attribute it to investing in my business. I am not going to sit here and act like I am so special that people flock to me. After I read Think and Grow Rick: I got my Facebook to blow up by investing in advertising, partnerships, and doing all kind of things to get traffic to my page. How has social media helped your business? I have been able to sell books and be seen and heard by more people.
I have also invited to more speaking engagements. By focusing on growing the social media and improving my craft, more opportunities have come my way. What advice do you have for people who are single and looking for their life partner? They have got to look at themselves in the mirror and understand they are not as good as they think they are.
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However, a lot of people want to blame everything outside of themselves as to why they are single. The reality is their biggest issue is themselves.
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It could be a lack of healing or the way they are presenting themselves or they are not emotionally available. Also, you have to look at what you are putting out there. What are you projecting?
How are you contributing to the relationship not going in the direction you want? People have to look at relationships more seriously. Having a good relationship takes work but people think it should be easy. You may have to use the same amount of energy one uses to create an amazing business.
What can attendees expect? Everywhere you look, things seem so dysfunctional. But then, I remind myself of those who are being helped and know that not everyone is not going to take it. But there are people who use it and embrace it and I use that to help keep me going.
That relationship helps me stay focused.
We can speak at an event and we think no one has been impacted; that it was a horrible event. For all we know, there was that one person whose life was completely changed because of what they heard us say, so to me.
What do you think the biggest challenge is that your clients or audience face? So because of that disconnect, it is creating a lot of issues and dysfunction. People would rather look for ways to validate their issues than work on them. All this stems from them not wanting to do the necessary work to heal. I mean, how many times do we talk about the same issues over and over?
Let me go fix this. Touching on what you said earlier, do you feel that more women or men are receptive to your message? Men, not so much. But once in the presence of those men and we get into a conversation? So you have to find a way to infiltrate them.
But you have to be able to make it make sense. That is one of the biggest problems. For him to really understand it and for it to make sense.
Men are logical creatures and when we can connect with it logically, it makes it ten times easier for us to embrace it. So how do you infiltrate? Well the way that I plan to eventually infiltrate is ask myself, okay, what do the men want to hear about? What would men come out to? Men would come out to an event that tells them how to make money.
That is something they have no problem saying, okay, I want to learn something here. Especially when you can show them that you are financially successful.
So once I get them in the room for something they want to hear about, now I can consult them about what they need to also hear about. OK, so switching gears just a little bit. Over the past couple weeks, there have been discussions surrounding Godly men dating women who are not necessarily perceived as Godly women.